A Sneaky Tactic To Get Your Ex Wife Back
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If you ever want to get your ex wife back, then you need to use some sneaky tactics. Getting back with you may be the last thing on her mind, but it could be on yours. You will need to learn how to fly under the radar and not let your wife catch on to what you are up to.
Winning your wife back is something that many men have tried to do, even if they were the ones who got the divorce in the first place. When any relationship ends, one partner is always left hanging. If you were left hanging, then it could be obvious to her that you want to get your ex wife back.
So what you need to do is not make it seem so obvious to her. Go out with friends and have a blast. Do not try brag to her about what a fun time you have been having. Also make it look obvious to her friends that you are going out to have fun. And when your ex wife gets the word that you are out and about, she may be bothered by the fact that you are moving on quicker than she is.
When you happen to see your wife again, do not go on and on about all the crazy things you have been up to. Just let her know that you are coping with the divorce. It may be tempting to make her jealous by bragging about your social life. But there will be no need to, because she will be jealous anyway.
If she seems down, then try make her feel better by explaining that her life is also worth celebrating. It may not seem like the right way to get your ex wife back, but by making her feel like an independent, stable person, she will gain respect for you.
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my wife decided that she didn’t want to be with me anymore, one month after she started her own buety salon inside a local gym, where she fell in with a new crowd of friends(mostly seperated or divorced) and had lots of fit single guys hitting on her and stuff. She is 29 i am 30 we have been together for 8yrs married for 4 and have 2 kids (10 and 3). I pleaded and begged for 6months, moved out for a couple weeks then moved back in, after about 5 months she moved into a rented house, she was there for about 4hrs then decided that she wanted to come home and work things out, that lasted for about 2 days then she decided that she didn’t want to be with me again!
I then moved into a friends for a few weeks, she said that we needed space for a while and that we would work things out and get back together. Then she just decided no she didn’t know how to fix us, i am now at my parents house.
She has agreed to take on the mortgage payments and the house bills and try and get my name off the mortgage.
I am finally using no contact, but over the last few days she has stopped contacting me also. I’m just panicking that she has really moved on and is not missing me.
I know that she has been with other guy or guys, even told me that she was pregnant to someone else, at the time i told her that i would stand by her and we would get through it……when she found out she wasn’t pregnent(2 days later) she just said no don’t want to be with you anymore even though i tolad her i would stand by her!!!
I have always been a good husband and treated her like a queen, i just hope that she will realise what she has done and what she has thrown away…….and start to want me back and truley feel the loss that i do…..then she will start to persue me!!
Any comments?
Hi Darren,
I really want to sympathize with what you have been going through. So many men get this wrong when trying to their wives back.
I understand that you were afraid of losing her, but resolving to begging and pleading will never win over a woman’s heart. It’s not about telling her how perfect everything will be, how she has made a mistake, and how you will be a better husband.
IT’S ABOUT SHOWING HER!
I really think you should sign-up to the free 6-part e-course on the the top-right. It will give you some great advice at where you went wrong and also how to fix things.
Just go to:
http://getbackyourwife.getbackex.org/save-my-marriage-ecourse/
The reason it is a good idea to stop communication for a while is two-fold:
1- you have time to figure out what really was going wrong in the marriage. The sign that your wife was getting affectionate with other men, seems to tell me that somehow you were not giving her enough emotional support.
2- that time alone will make her start to also think about the marriage, kids, etc, and if she still loves you – there’s a good chance she does, so DO NOT PANIC!!
Just remember – The weaker you appear to her, the less attractive you become.
So NEVER beg, plead, or put yourself in a desperate situation. Because once you give her the upper-hand, she will be the one making the decisions. And women can really be influenced by their erratic emotions when having to decide…I know that because I am a woman.
But for now I suggest you have a look at the free e-course.
Best wishes,
Nikki
Hi Nikki,
Thank you so much for the fast reply!
Couple of questions for ya to get your teeth into?
1) I haven’t heard from my ex wife in four days, starting to think that she isn’t missing me and happier on her own, she’s just thinking that i’m being silly and childish by avoiding her,etc.
Will she go like that at the start of NC for a while before she starts to feel any loss or before her bubble bursts and reality hits if she realises what she has thrown away.
2) Even though we were still in the same house for 6 months(after the breakup) and she was getting on with her new life while i was pleading and begging, and we were in seperate beds and stuff……could she have totally moved on during that time though she was telling me what i wanted to her about us working things out(she told me she said those things because she didn’t like seeing me hurting so much, and that seeing me cry made HER weak). What i mean is could she have got over me while i was in the house or will she only start to really miss me now that i am using NC and not in the house?
Hope you can figure out what i mean.
Darren